You've had an effect on my life.

Graham:

You're right, I've got a lot of problems... 

But they belong to me.

Ann:

You think they're yours, but they're not.

Everybody that walks in that door 

becomes part of your problem.  

Anybody that comes in contact with you. 

I didn't want to be part of your problem, but I am.

I'm leaving my husband, and maybe I would have anyway,

 but the fact is, is, I'm doing it now, and part of it's because of you. 

You've had an effect on my life.

Graham:

This isn't supposed to happen.

I've spent nine years structuring my life so this didn't happen..